Monday, October 12, 2009

just one day


Recently I saw this movie where two people meet in a train, start talking and have a great time together. But when they had to part, the guy offered the girl to spend a day with him.

His argument: He had a great time with her and thought it could result into something beautiful if they spend more time together. And he was sure that she felt the same too...so she should give it a try. Because if someday she is married and is unhappy with her life, at least she wouldn’t wonder what if she had accepted his offer and that life could have been better and happier today! And just in case she doesn’t have a good time with him, she wouldn’t have anything to regret.

Of course she agreed to spend time with him. And like anybody can predict, she had a great time with him. But what you might not predict is that by a twist of fate, they don’t end up being together.

And for the rest of her life she knew exactly how beautiful life could be if they were together, but couldn’t do anything about it.

And now I am left wondering...what is better?
"To not know how beautiful life can be with somebody and live with that uncertainty, wishing you knew it?" Or "To know it and then not be able to be with that person?"

In short
What’s better???
“To never know happiness?” Or “To know happiness and then not be able to have it?”

30 comments:

Akshay said...

"To know happiness and then not be able to have it?" teaches you a lot more, for sure.

ronin said...

i ll go with ..never kno happinezz..
i think known happiness is finite... the unknown happiness is juz infinite...
its like the perfect breeze..perfect song.. perfect line..princess story..why spoil that :)

ronin said...

btw u r talking abt before sunrise / sunset .. dat movie right !!

gunj said...

@Akshay: teaches you what?

@Ronin: bang on...exactly those movies! also loved your thought here :) thanks for dropping by! :)

Hobo ........ ........ ........ said...

To live in a moment And walk forward.

Ria said...

i think its better to at least know happiness. coz u hav a taste of what happiness truly is!! and besides nothing lasts forever.

Abhishek Khanna said...

its always better to know happiness .. and then take your chances..

Taurus Girl said...

Always better to know happiness..
Yes of course one cannot fight fate.. :(

Great post!!!

The Mystic said...

Hi,
Jumped to your blog from Mayank's.
Well happiness and the opportunity to be happy go hand in hand. We just need to grab that small chance we get.

Ciao
Ishaan

Jack said...
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Jack said...

“To know happiness and then not be able to have it?” Any day.

Tomorrow is too late...live TODAY said...

well written....to knw happiness is bettr..acc to me...atleast a single time one can njoy..:)

Gagan said...
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Gagan said...

Well, I am BACK! :)
Anyway, to know happiness is definately what I am gonna choose....because with that thought in mind, I can atleast look forward to getting it sometime in the future....even if I am never gonna get it! The thought of it coming closer will automatically make me happy! :D

**I deleted my earlier comment because I made serious Typos! :P

SAURABH AGGARWAL said...

i will say its better "To never know happiness?”, if i m d person evolved.
Whts fun if u cant have a thing, which u know is better.. i will say "Ignorance is Bliss"... :)

BIG Omi said...

I think not knownin is better Gunj.. its like every day you open ur reigerator and u find one new n exquisite, never tasted flavor of icecream... u start loving ur tomorrows... the hope keeps you all excited and pepped up for tomorrow... and so much of awaiting makes sure tht u enjoy each flavour with same zeal... :)

Belated happy b'day buddy!!

Neeraj Singh said...

This movie you are talking about .. had a sequel.. If you have not watched the second part ... before sunset .. may be u will get an answer ..

ani_aset said...

ok so i have the movie and haven't seen it yet..but still i think having known happiness and not getting it is what i will live with..in pursuit of happyness

Abhinav garg said...

i'll say if u have courage to lose than only you should try to win...
i am into robotics and i have seen lots of failures , but that doesn't stop me from probing more into that field....
same is with life....
agar use paane ke liye jaan ki baaji laga sakta hun....
to use khone ke baad muskura bhi sakta hun...
dat shud b d spirit....
know real hapiness only if u have courage to live without it..

Sameer said...

It's a nice dilemma here, but I think both have their own charm. Not knowing happiness sounds like taking the safe way out because then it is just curiosity that plays on your mind, whereas knowing happiness and not having it requires a much stronger mind to deal with the disappointment.
Having said that, I would still go with the latter option - just my choice.
- Sameer
http://soulcountry.wordpress.com

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